Stop Asking Your Twin Flame Questions

This sounds like a weird instruction, right?! How do I engage with my person, if you are telling me to not ask them questions?

First, let me give a little background.  Questions are from the mind.  Always.  Soul doesn’t need to ask questions because soul just IS.  Soul doesn’t need or want answers, it is the mind that seeks answers.  The mind wants to be able to rationalize or understand things better, or else it just wants to know things as a matter of (let’s face it) gossip.

Let me give an example that has nothing to do with your person.  A coworker recently quit working at the company you both work at.  You want to find out what happened and ask questions? That is not soul that wants to know what happened, it is the mind. The answer really is irrelevant.  It doesn’t change anything and in the scheme of things it doesn’t affect you, yet you still inquire.

Now let’s move on to your other self.  They tell you they are going to be going out that evening and that they may not be able to call you until the next day.  BUT…they don’t divulge more information than that.  Mind immediately goes spikes with addictive energy, and you try your best to balance that energy, but you are going crazy wanting to know where they are going, who they will be with, and when they plan on being home.  Mind has already created a hundred different stories (of course all horrible) and is running wild with those low-level vibrations of fear, anger, and jealousy.  You feel like there is no way you can go through a whole evening with these lingering fears on your mind without asking them what they are doing.

Ok, my loves…this is where spiritual stamina comes in.  This is where you build those spiritual muscles that not only allow you to level up, but help you balance like a BOSS! Asking questions (we’ve already determined) is mind.  Mind energy is push energy in this connection.  You want to see your person pull away as FAST as an Indy race car driver? Then ask away.  I guarantee if you start questioning their whereabouts of the evening, it will repel them.  This connection thrives in soul.  If you are questioning them, you are allowing mind to push. 

When you are balancing your Twin Flame, the key is to always communicate through soul.  Soul is always present and doesn’t need to know things that the mind requires to feel satiated.  When you are aligned with soul, you WON’T care what they are doing, thinking, feeling, or saying in the 3D.  It will be inconsequential and irrelevant to you.  You are focused on yourself and loving yourself that what they are up to does not touch you.  This, my loves, is how they can’t stay away from you!  Get to this place of not giving a F*&K with what they are doing, and they will be so freaking drawn to you…that they won’t be able to stay away.

I have got to the point in my connection, where the only questions I ask are about his day at work.  I keep it very general and brief.  I let him lead personal conversations that he wants to discuss.  Whether they are about his kids, what he’s reading online, who he is on the phone with…it all is irrelevant to me.  If he wants to tell me fine.  If he doesn’t, also fine.  A little over a year ago, I would not have been able to say this.  I would have had crazy addictive energy if I saw him on his phone, whether he was talking to someone or just on social media. I can’t even count how many fights we had about “questions” I asked him.

One of the ways our connection feels so peaceful now is because of the lack of questions.  I try to remove as much “mind” as I can, to align with soul as much as possible. Questions, I have found, are the quickest way to repel.  What a calm and symbiotic connection…leave the questions for the friends and family, and just stick to soul with YOUR SOUL!

Love You Guys,

Elizabeth Anne

XOXO