Stop Talking About Your Twin Flame With Friends and Family

When I first met my person, I was so enamored with them and the addictive energy had already been activated, that I couldn’t stop talking, thinking, or obsessing about him.  What I didn’t know at the time was doing all those things were making an energetic path that would tear us apart and cause separation. The thinking and obsessing about your person is something you won’t be able to control until you learn how to balance your energy, but you can stop talking about your person.  That is something you have immediate control, regardless of where you are in your soul alignment.

I know it seems natural to want to share and talk about this person that you are so in love with, with anyone you come in contact with.  But this really is hurting your connection.  This connection is based on your energy, and anything you do that perpetuates your addictive energy is going thru you to them.  So, when you talk about them, you are really sending push energy their way, without even realizing it.  This is not like a soulmate connection (who by the way, cannot feel your energy when they are not in your proximity) and you can talk about them all day long. Your twin is you, so any type of energy that is stirred within you, is something that they can feel, whether they are in your physical 3D space or not.  

The energy created when talking about your other self is not the only reason that you want to steer clear of the topic.  You must understand that most of your friends, family or others you may divulge personal information about your other self with, are asleep.  To them, they will look at the way your person is repelled from your energy and how they appear in the 3D and hold it against them.  Their judgement will make them want to tell you how horrible your person is treating you, and how you deserve better.  This is not what you want to hear, nor will it be helpful when you are struggling with your addictive energy towards them.  If anything, it will make the mind create more irrational fears and stories associated with them.  You will intertwine appearances and expectations from the 3D and put them towards a 5D connection.  It doesn’t line up and it won’t make sense.  All it will do is cause you confusion and heartache and a feeling of isolation.

When soul recognition happened with my person (that moment when soul recognizes itself and the push/pull gets activated so much that the negative polarity can’t be in your energy), he moved out without warning.  I mean, up and left.  Packed his stuff in a space of 2 hours and when I returned home after running an errand, I came home to an empty house, totally unaware of what had transpired. To say I was a wreck would have been an understatement.  Him leaving set off my Dark Night and to all of my friends and family, he became enemy.  But I didn’t need to hear how horrible he was…because I knew it wasn’t true.  I knew that he didn’t want to leave, but my energy had become so toxic for the both of us that he had to.  He had no choice. And that is what this connection is…an energetic one. As the negative polarity, he is merely always just responding to my energy.  He doesn’t even realize it. When I push, he pulls. It really is that simple. When I align with soul, he comes to me, because I’m his gateway to soul.

When you are learning to balance your addictive energy (that is your role as the awakened twin), this is where you need to go within.  JoAnne and I created World’s Cup of JoE because we know how lonely this journey is.  You can’t talk about it with your friends or family—you will push your person away…and we wanted to create a safe space for you to not feel alone on this journey. We are here for you.  Any way that we can assist you in your journey, no matter the stage you are in, please feel free to reach out!

XOXO

Elizabeth Anne