You Are Not in Separation, but in Preparation

I saw this beautiful picture and quote this morning as I was scrolling on my phone. The quote said, “You are not in separation from your divine counterpart, you are in preparation for Sacred Union.”  As soon as I saw it, I knew I had to write a blog about it.  The message was so accurate that I felt I needed to do my part to spread the word.

Although separation from your person in the physical, feels like you are apart and alone, you are always one because you share one soul.  To soul, there is no separation, so when you start to look at the lack of the physical in your existence, you are energetically pushing your person away from being able to return in the physical. 

Before my separation, my person and I lived together for a year and a half. That time spent together was painful for the both of us.  My addictive energy was all consuming and it dominated the house.  It spew its toxicity everywhere I went.  I still remember the words my person wrote in the letter when he left, “the house is toxic”.  The house was a metaphor for my energy.  My energy was toxic, and it was hurting all of us that lived under the roof.  My person was always sick to his stomach, I was always anxious, depressed, and angry, and my children had to navigate my emotional stability or lack thereof, daily. They watched as their once pleasant and calm mother was always crying and seemed to be suffering daily.  I often heard my children ask, “Mom, are you ok?”…words previously never asked of me, before I met my person.

Our separation was painful.  More than words can ever adequately depict.  But those of you who read this page, don’t need to have the words expressed to know what I’m describing.  You all know.  You have been through it.  You have felt it. 

I struggled in the beginning of separation, to find the emotional stamina just to get out of bed in the morning to go to work.  It was tough, and my mind was not in the right place to focus on anything outside of my person.  I was in a never-ending loop of pain of the past that had just transpired, and fear of a future without him. All this past and future sent me spiraling deeper. 

And that is when my true spiritual journey and awakening happened.  It was slow at first.  I was finding my new legs to walk, like a toddler.  I didn’t rush myself, although I was eager to take in any information that may help me feel better.  I read a lot of spiritual books, listened to a lot of meditations, and took a lot of walks to start helping me feel better.  I spoke with JoAnne daily (the other half to the E in Cup of JoE). She used everything in her tool belt that she had learned from her separation (she was already in Sacred Union with her person at this time), and I followed her advice like she was my life preserver in a storm of torrential water. And I held on tight, doing everything she instructed. And her best guidance was explaining presence to me. 

And that was the start of me releasing my addictive energy and learning how to align with soul.  Slowly, I could see the correlation of how often my person reaching out either by text or calling me, in relation to how focused on myself I was.  When I was busy taking care of me and my needs, and keeping my thoughts from staying obsessively on him, that is when he would reach out more.  I would take meditative long walks in the early morning, and then next thing I knew, he was driving by my house at 5:30 in the morning after he went to the gym, just to say hi.   When I was aligned with soul, he showed up. The house he once said was toxic, was now a place he could regularly spend the night again. 

 My separation was absolutely one of preparation.  It got me to a point of being able to balance my energy and learn the tools I needed for a sacred union. My person and I moved back in together, and because of our time separated in the physical, our current union is one of peace and love.  The addictive energy that once was so pervasive in the home, is no longer there.  My energy is that of soul almost all of the time.  I reside most of the time in either peace, love, or joy.  But the thing that keeps the energy in a place that he can live with me is that when the lower energies of mind do creep in, I know how to balance them out and return back to soul.  I no longer am dominated by the fears and triggers that will always be a part of this connection. 

You are not in separation, you are in a place to learn how to manage your energy, so you can be in the best place possible FOR YOU and then by extension for the both of you. Learning how to balance your energy, will make a Sacred Union possible. And one where they won't ever want to run again. This period is for you. Use it, learn from it, and grow from it. So, when the time is right, you can live in a place of peaceful shared energy.

If you need guidance in your journey, feel free to reach out.  We have tons of tools for people on this journey.  You can check out our YouTube channel: Awakened Twin Flame YOU hold the key to Union! They are waiting for YOU to find SOUL! 💞 - YouTube .  Make sure to subscribe and click the bell for notifications so you are always up to date on the latest content we have shared.  Or you can look on our store for the various services we offer: World's Cup of JoE: Awaken Your Soul (mykajabi.com) 

XOXO

Elizabeth Anne